Saturday, September 11, 2010

A mother's message to her son's wedding

This touches my heart. There's always a story behind everything. How a picture got on a wall. How a scar got on your face. Sometimes the stories are simple, and sometimes they are hard and heartbreaking. But behind all your stories is always your mother's story, because hers is where yours begin.


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To my Charley on his wedding day-
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I know you think these notes are silly. I have watched you scrunched your face over the years when I give them to you. But understand that sometimes I want to tell you something and I want to get it just right. Putting it down on a paper helps me do that. I wish I had been a better writer. I wish I had gone to college. If I had, I think I would've studied English and maybe my vocabulary would have improved. So many times I feel I am using the same words over and over, like a woman wearing the same dress every day. So boring!
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What I want to say to you, Charley, is you're marrying a wonderful girl. I think of Catherine in many ways like I think of Roberta. Like a daughter. She is sweet and patient. You should be the same with her, Charley.
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Here is what you are going to find out about marriage: you have to work at it together. And you have to love three things. You have to love
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1. Each other.
2. Your children (When you have some! Hint! Hint!).
3. Your marriage.
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What I mean by the last one is, there may be times that you fight, and sometimes you and Catherine won't even like each other. Those are the times you have to love your marriage. It's like a third party. Look at your wedding photos. Look at any memories you've made. And if you believe in those memories, they will pull you back together.
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I'm very proud of you today, Charley. I am putting this in your tuxedo pocket because I know how you lose things.
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I love you every day!
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Mom

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Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Inspiring Wednesday

Here's a passage that I want to share with all of you:

Friday comes, you go home, and you pick up the newspapers that you weren't able to read during the week. You turn on the television with the sound off. You put on a cassette tape. You use the remote control to jump from one channel to the other, as you try to turn the pages of the paper and listen to the music. The papers contain nothing new, the TV programs are repetitious, and you've already heard the cassette dozens of times. Your wife is attending to the children, sacrificing her youthful years without really understanding why she is doing so. An excuse occurs to you: "Well, that's the way life is." No, that's not the way life is. Life is enthusiasm. Try to remember where it was that you hid away your enthusiasm. Take your wife and children with you and try to find it again, before it's too late. Love never kept anyone from following his dream.

Have a great Wednesday, everyone! Things can only improve.

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Sunday, September 5, 2010

Untitled

When he went blundering back to God,
His songs half written, his work half done,
Who knows what paths his bruised feet trod,
What hills of peace or pain he won?

I hope God smiled and took his hand,
And said, "Poor truant, passionate fool!
Life's book is hard to understand:
Why couldst thou not remain at school?"


(a poem by Charles Hanson Towne,
found inside a notebook amongst
this particular person's belongings)

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Thursday, September 2, 2010

A True Talent: Jason Mraz


I just need to let the whole world know how talented this man is and that without a doubt, Jason Mraz is one of the greatest artists I've known. First, let's take a peek of his life and find out how he started his career from an ordinary "dude" who loves cats to a renowned song writer, singer and a guitar-enthusiast.

Biography

Jason Mraz, his life-altering journey began with a single word: no. No touring, no recording, no work for a year: "I said, I want to go the grocery store again. I want to do my own laundry. I want to tend to a garden. I want to raise a cat."

Mraz came to the decision after a remarkable four years where he had seen his major label debut, "Waiting for My Rocket to Come" explode off the success of such hits as "Remedy (I Won't Worry)," "You and I Both" and "Curbside Prophet." Shortly thereafter, he returned with his Grammy-nominated, critically acclaimed "Mr. A-Z," which continued his chart success with "Wordplay." Throughout, his reputation as a tremendous live act soared.

But when he took a well-earned break, something unexpected happened: he rediscovered himself. After a few months, "I suddenly woke up and real songs started coming out of me," Mraz recalls. "Songs that I didn't plan on writing. But that just became a reflection of how I feel and the mood that I was in and these awakenings that I was having," he says.

The result is "We Sing. We Dance. We Steal Things." his most self-assured effort to date. In true Mraz style, the 12 tunes are wrapped in clever, observant lyrics and strong, engaging pop melodies, but this time they are inspired "by these moments of self realization, self empowerment and self improvement. I was happy to be able to write an album at the same time I was coming back to earth."

Highlights include first single, "I'm Yours," a warm breeze of a song about finally giving into love and life's possibilities set to lilting island tempo. A demo of the song leaked out into the world a few years ago and has developed a cult following. "I didn't realize how powerful it was until we went to Sweden last summer and 6,000 people sang every word," Mraz says. "I'd never been to Sweden in my life. I thought, it's already got a life of its own from the demo, let's give people a great version of it. I feel like we finally got it right on this album."

Another highlight is "Lucky," a simple, endearing duet with new platinum singer-songwriter Colbie Caillat. "I got word that she was a fan and wanted to work together, so I immediately demanded her phone number," Mraz says with a laugh. He sent her segments of a love song that she and her guitarist Timothy Fagan completed.

Caillat then joined Mraz in a London studio where he recorded the album with producer Martin Terefe, best known for his work with Coldplay and James Morrison (who guests on the intricate "Details in the Fabric").

Terefe, along with songwriter/pianist Sasha Skarbek (who co-wrote james Blunt's "You're Beautiful"), also played a hand in co-writing some of the tunes with Mraz, including "Love for a Child," a searing autobiographical tale of Mraz's parents split when he was five. "I didn't want to share the lyrics," Mraz confesses, "but I just let it rip and it wasn't until playback that I realized how important it was that I needed to write it."

While Mraz and Terefe deliberately kept the music stripped down, they added flourishes that distinguish "We Sing" from standard pop fare, including a gospel choir on "Live High," and operatic embellishments and a children's chorale on "Coyotes."

"Martin is such a funny guy," Mraz says. "He loves the quirkiness and loves to keep the pace going with little surprises so he's always willing to try my goofy ideas," such as bookending "Details in the Fabric" with real voice mail messages from Mraz's good friend and sometime co-writer Bushwalla.

The album takes its title from a piece of art by Glasglow-based doodle artist David Shrigley that Mraz saw in Scotland while traveling... (end of biography).


There you have it. While I was searching for his songs, I stumbled upon this piece that caught my eardrums' attention. A Song for a Friend is a different kind of love song. "It's a love song from a man to another man, in a good way. And that I have a lot of dudes I totally respect and so inspired by this piece," he claims. It's awesome that he sings for his mates. I don't actually hear about it much these days.

I guess this song is literally dedicated to a friend of his whom he treasured so much. The melody and the wonderful imagery -- I just love how a poet like Mraz can put his words to life!


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Thursday, August 12, 2010

Cringe-inducing typo outside N.C. school


Well, here's something to make your old English teacher gasp in horror: A road contractor hired to paint the word "school" on a freshly paved stretch of road near Southern Guilford High School in North Carolina rendered the traffic area in question a "shcool" zone.



But fear not for the (surely confused) youth of Greensboro! The contractor, a company called Traffic Markings, has already corrected the error, the local Fox TV affiliate reports.
This isn't the first such mishap on record. Last year, for instance, a Miami-area road crew offered the variant spelling of "schohol,"
while in 2007, a team in Kalamazoo, Mich., managed the same "h" and "c" reversal.



Chalk it all up to a bad day's wrok.


(Photo via AP/Greensboro News & Record, Joseph Rodriguez)


Source: Yahoo! News

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Thursday, July 29, 2010

Paradigm shift

Imagine you're in an Airport. While you're waiting for your flight, you notice a kiosk selling shortbread cookies. You buy a box, put them in your traveling bag and then you patientlysearch for an available seat so you can sit down and enjoy your cookies.


Finally you find a seat next to a gentleman. You reach down into yourtraveling bag and pull out your box of shortbread cookies. As you do so, you notice that the gentleman starts watching you intensely.He stares as you open the box and his eyes follow your hand as you pick upthe cookie and bring it to your mouth. Just then he reaches over and takesone of your cookies from the box and eats it! You're more than a little surprised at this. Actually, you're at a loss for words. Not only does he take one cookie, but he alternates with you. For every one cookie you take, he takes one.

Now, what's your immediate impression of this guy? Crazy? Greedy? He's gotsome nerve! Can you imagine the words you might use to describe this manto your associates back at the office? Meanwhile, you both continue eatingthe cookies until there's just oneleft. To your surprise, the man reaches over and takes it. But then he does something unexpected. He breaks it in half, and gives half to you. After he's finished with his half he gets up, and without a word, he leaves.

You think to yourself, "Did this really happen?" You're left sitting there dumbfounded and still hungry. So you go back to the kiosk and buy another box of cookies. You then return to your seat and begin opening your new box of cookies whenyou glance down into your traveling bag. Sitting there in your bag is your original box of cookies -- still unopened. Only then did you realize that when you reached down earlier, you hadreached into the other man's bag and grabbed his box of cookies bymistake.

Now what do you think of the man? Generous? Tolerant? You've just experienced a profound paradigm shift. You're seeing things from a newpoint of view. Is it time to change your point of view?

Now, think of this story as it relates to your life. Seeing things from anew point of view can be very enlightening. Think outside the box. Don't settle for the status quo. Be open to suggestions. Things may not be what they seem.
Photo by =IsaiahS, DA

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Friday, July 23, 2010

Globe-ing

After centuries of being disconnected from the virtual world, alas, I'm finally back in full throttle to dominate the vast world wide web. LOL Wish it was that easy to say. Patience was the price paid because this idea of having internet connection at home had been going on for 3 mos and without luck from Smart's Share-It Unlimited program (which they claim the router out of stock and China was momentarily out of the materials needed for the router), I decided to go for Globe's bundle treat (internet + landline). It was Monday last week when I went to their office in SM to secure an application form which I waited for an hour. I looked around and checked on each customer service agents who were assisting people from all kinds. Unfortunately, out of the 7 agents, only 1 was smiling while maintaining composure talking to her customer. Believe me, I felt the old man who was complaining about his daughter's Globe Tattoo which was no longer getting signal, the young lady who never got her bills for the past 2 mos, and the list goes on... Scary, but I had the feeling that I'll be the next one in the list. Haha. The lady who assisted me ensured it will only take 3-5 days to install the line to my place. I nodded in relief and went out with full enthusiasm while holding the application form in my left hand. I walked around the mall like a king. LOL.


I waited for 8 days and nothing. No internet, no landline, just a note in my head from the lady carrying a large banner saying "3-5 days only". It was 1pm the following day when an agent from Globe customer service called informing me that there was a miscalculation regarding the I-don't-know-what-on-earth-line-she-was-talking-about and that the facility assigned (?) was also incorrect. Straight-faced. I got really annoyed when she offered me the greatest deal they could offer -- CANCELING my subscription. I wanted to start World War 4 and put a bomb under the agent's desk and sue Globe for making my hopes high. I took the deal and had them feel how frustrated I was.

30 minutes after, 2 men knocked on the gate. They were looking for someone named Ken Michael so I gave them a wicked smiled. An hour later, I was already enjoying downloading movies using utorrent. I got my phone line and my 1 MBPS internet connection which came with a prolink modem and wifi bundle. So here I am enjoying the bundle which only costs 1290 pesos a month. Goodness.


Lesson: Miracles happen when you least expect it. Be patient and you'll be blessed.


(I'm sorry I can't go into details. I am sleepy, I need to cut this post short.)


Bye for now.

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