Life's meaning

Life is indeed, so short. And, oddly enough, it is much shorter for those whose lives they find meaningful while it is too long for those whose lives they find meaningless. 

Couldn't it be that life is what meaning we put into it? 

Now and then, I also ask what meaning has my life really. Often, I feel like I know but at other times, my thinking looks like a useless mental exercise. Life is just so vast, so full of mysteries that before I can put meaning to my life, part of it is gone and the meaning I try putting on it is already partly exhausted. 

Life, so it seems, is like dry sand slipping through my fingers. When I try to hold on to itvery tightly as if squeezing it, it slips away faster. But when I try to cast it away, it sticks on my hands. Sometimes, I think, to appreciate life best, one has neither to hold on to it tightly nor to let it go so carelessly. The sand in the hourglass is life. It is better to let it flow freely, although not carelessly. 

How we take life is often dictated by what priorities we have. And life, being so vast, offers everything which can be a priority to us. A student ever so eager to get out of poverty would say, "Life will be meaningless if I don't finish my studies." A terribly-in-love woman would say, "Should I lose him now, life will be meaningless to me." And an alcoholic, trembling with the urge to drink, would be ready to give anything he has, even his dignity, for a bottle of liquor. Then, there is this young ambitious businessman who desperately wants to make his first million before reaching forty. He easily forgets he has a wife, children and friends. Only the first million seems to matter. 

But now, what are the things that last which could have real meaning in one's life? Have you ever thought of this? 

As they say, there are in the end three things that last: faith, hope and love, and the greatest is love.